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Is a Girl worth the Trouble? -by Warren Chia One might say that a relationship with a girl is a burden. There are so many ways that relationships can bring troubles into your life. First of all, as soon as you get involved, you're broke! That includes movies, meals, gifts, and phone bills, just to name a few. Then, she pounds you with peevish questions which are unanswerable, yet they demand a response. You know - those questions like, "Is my butt too big?" or, "Do you think she's prettier than me?" These always lead to pointless fights, which is another problem. Lastly, she takes up all your time. This means that your relationship with family and friends, as well as your grades in school, get worse. Instead of bonding with your family, or studying, you are on the phone with, out with, or thinking about, her. But in the end, who knows? That's a big risk, and to some, a big waste. To me, my relationship with (well, let's call her my sweetie) my sweetie has been nothing but joy. There is so much I can say about her. She always brings a smile to my face, even in the worst of times. We never fight, simply because we agree on almost everything. We walk and talk, just complaining about everything, and pour out our hearts to each other. When I'm with her, I have not a worry in the world. All I look forward to is spending time with her. She's the happiest, smartest, most beautiful, witty, gentle, and lovely thing in this world. Perhaps not even close, but to me, she is. She's everything to me, and I love her for that.
It is true, a lot of money has gone to things for her, and much of my daily time is spent talking to her and even just lying there, and thinking of her, and for a time, my grades were in the slums, but I regret none of it. She has helped me to grow. Through good times and bad, we have lifted each other up. She has opened
up my eyes and my heart, and through these, all I can see is her. Yes, she is worth the… but how can all this joy be called "trouble"? Many sacrifices are made for her, but as restitution, the happiness she gives me is reward enough.
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